Dating is empowering, intentional, and growth-focused if you want it to be. Keepler equips you to invite love in and welcome it when it comes.
You're the main character. Not the problem.
Digital dating overwhelms us with “options” and suggests that more swipes, likes, superhearts (or whatever) equals intimacy. It fuels a preoccupation with “what elses" and “ifs.” The fruitless hunt for “better” becomes frustrating, shallow interactions exhausting, and emptiness from being ghosted, heavy.
Keepler reconnects you to yourself, helping you identify unmet needs, patterns and true compatibility.
Why we decided not to make another dating app.
Most dating apps focus on matching—but finding someone is just the start. Keepler helps you develop emotional intelligence, refine decision-making, and approach dating with clarity.
Form your relationship with yourself first.
Keepler is the first dating support guide and tracker with tools to help you gain wisdom from your romantic escapades. Its AI insights, reflection tools, and expert guidance help you date purposely, identifying and breaking patterns to build real relationships.
Find love from self-love. Keepler's founder is living proof that it works.
Keepler helps you date with intention, build confidence, and create the relationship you actually want.
Start dating with purpose—join today.
Hi, I'm Rachel, Keepler founder. Like many, I spent years (nay, decades) dating aimlessly, repeating the same patterns, and trying to fit into the wrong relationships. Dating felt like a cycle of self-doubt, frustration, and validation seeking—until I finally took a different approach.
During the pandemic, I ditched dopamine-driven swiping and started dating intentionally, assessing how I felt and what I needed and making decisions that served me. Instead of "Am I good enough? Do they like me?" I asked, "How does this person make me feel? Is this what I want?" This shift changed everything—and led me to my now-husband.
That experience, plus tons of research and honest conversations, led to Keepler. We learned that the secret to better dating isn't just finding the right person but having the right tools, insights, and support to navigate dating with confidence and clarity.
That's why Keepler is not another dating app, but dating support. Features like our dating diary, challenges, and insights help you track your progress, break frustrating patterns, and date smarter, online or in real life.
And we're just getting started! We built Keepler for you, so if there's something you'd love to see, let us know at community@lovekeepler.com.
We can't wait to help you write your story.
